I hate when uninformed people shy away from me because of my status. What I hate even more is my own edit of affection because of their ignorance, but because of the experiences I have had with stigma , I refuse to let others close to me be affected so I keep it simple. That’s one of the reasons I choose to tell people my status from the very beginning. Even though I or others may encourage a person to become educated does not mean that they will. They may honestly think they are protecting loved ones by informing them and others of my status. I get that. I really do. I just wish they would take a minute to ask me, or google information about HIV/AIDS. FIND OUT THE FACTS:
HIV is spread primarily by:
- Not using a condom when having sex with a person who has HIV. All unprotected sex with someone who has HIV contains some risk. However:
- Unprotected anal sex is riskier than unprotected vaginal sex.
- Among men who have sex with other men, unprotected receptive anal sex is riskier than unprotected insertive anal sex.
- Having multiple sex partners or the presence of other sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) can increase the risk of infection during sex. Unprotected oral sex can also be a risk for HIV transmission, but it is a much lower risk than anal or vaginal sex.
- Sharing needles, syringes, rinse water, or other equipment used to prepare illicit drugs for injection.
- Being born to an infected mother—HIV can be passed from mother to child during pregnancy, birth, or breast-feeding.
Less common modes of transmission include:
- Being “stuck” with an HIV-contaminated needle or other sharp object. This risk pertains mainly to healthcare workers.
- Receiving blood transfusions, blood products, or organ/tissue transplants that are contaminated with HIV. This risk is extremely remote due to the rigorous testing of the U.S. blood supply and donated organs/tissue.
- HIV may also be transmitted through unsafe or unsanitary injections or other medical or dental practices. However, the risk is also remote with current safety standards in the U.S.
- Eating food that has been pre-chewed by an HIV-infected person. The contamination occurs when infected blood from a caregiver’s mouth mixes with food while chewing. This appears to be a rare occurrence and has only been documented among infants whose caregiver gave them pre-chewed food.
- Being bitten by a person with HIV. Each of the very small number of cases has included severe trauma with extensive tissue damage and the presence of blood. There is no risk of transmission if the skin is not broken.
- Contact between broken skin, wounds, or mucous membranes and HIV-infected blood or blood-contaminated body fluids. These reports have also been extremely rare.
- There is an extremely remote chance that HIV could be transmitted during “French” or deep, open-mouth kissing with an HIV-infected person if the HIV-infected person’s mouth or gums are bleeding.
- Tattooing or body piercing present a potential risk of HIV transmission, but no cases of HIV transmission from these activities have been documented. Only sterile equipment should be used for tattooing or body piercing.
- There have been a few documented cases in Europe and North Africa where infants have been infected by unsafe injections and then transmitted HIV to their mothers through breastfeeding. There have been no documented cases of this mode of transmission in the U.S.
HIV cannot reproduce outside the human body. It is not spread by:
- Air or water.
- Insects, including mosquitoes. Studies conducted by CDC researchers and others have shown no evidence of HIV transmission from insects.
- Saliva, tears, or sweat. There is no documented case of HIV being transmitted by spitting.
- Casual contact like shaking hands or sharing dishes.
- Closed-mouth or “social” kissing.
All reported cases suggesting new or potentially unknown routes of transmission are thoroughly investigated by state and local health departments with assistance, guidance, and laboratory support from CDC.
It amazes me that with all this information available people still have unprotected sex, don’t get tested or ask others to be tested prior to becoming intimate. Do you stop and think that when you are having fun and hanging out..having drinks..smoking and one thing leads to the next..if this person is safe? Should I take their word even though I just met them? We have mutual friends so they should be cool right? Can you even have a real thought while in the heat of the moment? (I know I can’t if it’s like that..If the little man in the boat is rocking like there’s no tomorrow..shoot..If it’s really like that I can’t even remember how to breathe…Sorry..I digress) The reality is I know how mistakes could and can happen. You do too, so if you can’t police your own lives, why are you quick to police mine. It took a lot for me to go public with my status and regardless of the hell that may come, I refuse to regret my decision. TRUST..I will take the heat in a heartbeat if it helps others not to repeat or make the same mistakes I did.
